Things women notice about men...

When you meet a guy and you're really into him you put him through a series of tests as things progress. He normally doesnt even know he's being tested but thats the point, he isnt SUPPOSED to know.

These are some of the things I pay attention too when seriously dating someone besides the obvious things like chemistry, does he make you  laugh, is he stable, is he a stand up guy etc.

Most importantly a woman wants to know you're proud of her and that you're not trying to hide her. My friend posted pics of her and her guy friend together on instagram and facebook and the guy was totally fine with it. Im no certified love Dr...but I will tell you this. If you can publicly display the person you're dating, in a relationship with on a social media site and he gives you no shit about it thats part of him being a keeper. (Trust me I know the game) So post pics one day and see what happens and when you put a title on things hit him with the facebook status change. If he accepts it and allows it on his page awesome.

If a man gives you flack about something this miniscule it means that he's dealing with other women and you posting pics of the two of you boo loving is blowing his cover. If he's not serious about you than he'll say something along the lines of take that down I dont like people being all in my business. If he says this RUN. ---------------> 

You're just his sidepiece or fk buddy and those pics you all took on that fabulous date all hugged up are something he wants as just a memory in your mind. Not something for the world to see.

Next...how can I put this. Somewhere along the dating rollercoaster pick an argument. Something will come along that the two of you dont see eye to eye on. Stand your ground and get smart with him. You need to see how much he loves you, and HOW he treats you when he's upset. This can go a long way. You get to see a little glimpse into your future and you need to know what the protocol is for when you two are upset with eachother. Some people yell, some people shut down and give you the silent treatment......but he might haul off and smack the shit out of you.

If he does this RUN. ----------->  (and file a restraining order. He crazy)

Pay attention to what the two of you do together. Do the two of you go out often. Do you have dinner and go to movies and awesome dates. Does he open doors and hold your hand in public? If he does this is how its supposed to be. He's making it known this is my boo and he has no issues with the two of you being seen out.  If every nights a blockbuster night when you're together? Im sorry you're the sidepiece.  RUN------------>


These are just a few tidbits of information compiled from dating the WRONG GUY in the past. lol

I have a separate blog about women with children. Its a whole different ball game for us. If you have a child from a previous relationship there are some KEY things that you need to take heed to in order to know if he's the one.

Until next time